I've had an ah-ha moment! Actually, it's HUGE so it's more of an AH-HA moment. I've been really struggling with the concept of being put in a mold...
It seems to me that we are so often put in certain 'molds'. Age, gender, economic status...
The list is endless and they're all kind of awful.
We're expected to fit a certain set of behaviors that are more often than not thrust upon us - usually without our approval.
I've been totally guilty of going along with it and worrying so much over who I'm 'supposed' to be.
It's exhausting. I'm done.
AH-HA! I don't have to fit into any mold at all!
It's something I knew but I didn't really. It just occurred to me that I can make it REAL. I can move beyond my fear of being judged and just BE.
My AH-HA moment! I know, I know, it took long enough, right?
Better late than never, etc...
What a relief!